Reflection Paper

Reflection Paper

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Reflection Paper

Introduction

This topic is important because it will help me know more about my behavior. I may not always be aware of how I am behaving towards others, and this can affect my relationship with other people. My purpose for writing the paper is to have a greater awareness of myself and in so doing, know more about how this affects my relationship with other people in different capacities such as personal and professional life. By writing the paper, I will be able to know more about the positive and negative aspects of my behavior. I wish to enhance the positive attributes and improve on the shortcomings and other weaknesses of my behavior. I will start by conducting self-awareness based on the Enneagram. This will involve determining my style and knowing more about my behavior when working with other people. I will demonstrate action learning by identifying the practical steps I will take to enhance my behavior. I will conclude the paper by giving a brief summary, and by noting how the self-awareness exercise will affect my behavior.

Self-Assessment

The Enneagram identifies several styles, and I have identified two of which I can most relate. I am a number two based on the Enneagram. I like helping others and I care for them to the point of over giving. I appreciate and support other people. I am a number 7 because I tend to see possibilities where most people see none. I come up with many ideas and I am imaginative. I am playful, easily distracted, and easily bored, to the extent that I cannot do the same thing for a long time.

We are often assigned different projects in class, where we have to work together in groups. In most cases, people have equal participation in the project. I always tend to have different ways of looking at the situation we are facing. I will often come up with five or more ideas of completing the project, while most people will have a single idea, or at most, two ideas. This is usually beneficial for the group because it ensures that our project is unique compared to other groups. My group likes my imagination and creative thinking. Moreover, I am always looking for the positive side of a situation, especially when we have a challenging project to complete.

The fact that I am imaginative and easily distracted sometimes works against me. This is because I am not patient enough to let the members consider the feasibility of the project before coming up with a different idea. Since I am easily bored, I am not able to work on long projects. This can be frustrating to the other group members, and it has sometimes led to conflicts in the group. This often means that I am the most important person in the group when we are starting the project, but I tend to be the least favorable by the time the group is completing the project. I would like to change this behavior to ensure that I have a better relationship with the people I work with in future.

Action Learning

During the next 6-8 months, I will work towards ensuring that I understand and appreciate myself better. I will work towards enhancing my self-confidence, and having a firm belief and conviction in the things that I believe are true and right. I will create a situation, similar to the projects that we work in at school, and I will try to complete the project. I will identify a small business that is near the school, and I will try to formulate a plan of coming up with long term strategies, which will include identifying ways that the business can expand. This will take a lot of time, and it will require much dedication on my part. I will make sure that the project is long-term. Since I will do the project alone, I will set a period by which time I will have completed the project. This will mean working with one possible solution. By the end of the project, I hope I will have solved the problem of being easily distracted and bored when handling a task.

Conclusion

The purpose of the paper was to learn more about my behavior and interactions with others. I have identified the styles that suit my personality best. I have identified my areas of strengths and weaknesses. I have identified how I am able to benefit people, and the measures I can take to improve my relationships and interactions with other people. Because of this evaluation, I am now in a better position to understand people’s feelings and attitudes regarding my behavior. I will be able to rectify my behavior whenever I realize that I have become a distraction to the others. I will look for ways of ensuring that I continue contributing to the group whenever I sense boredom, especially when handling long projects.